If we can trust just a bit, if not yet in each other, in the greater providence of good and walk forward with only the barest faith, we will find what we could not see before.

–It Takes a Family

Let’s Get Started with Love First Family Lab®

Family Access
with Prepaid Key

For families who already received a key or code — enter it here to get started (no payment needed).

Family Access
(No Prepaid Key)

For one family group (up to 10 members) — purchase now and invite your loved ones to join.

Family Partner Organization

For organizations purchasing multiple access for individual families — including treatment centers, churches, courts, and community groups.

Two things to do first

Watch and Enroll

Introduction to Love First Family Lab

Watch this short video before you get started. You'll get a good overall picture of what we'll be doing together.

Love First Family Lab: Start Here

It's super simple to get started. We want to begin at the same time our loved one is beginning treatment, so enroll now.

Something simple 
every day

Love First Family Lab is designed for even the busiest schedules. We learn just a little bit every day. We’ll be amazed at what a difference it makes for the entire family.

So, what will we be doing?

Three simple steps each day that we’ll be doing together while our loved ones are in treatment.

The first thing we will do

The more loved ones who join (up to 10 included), the stronger your team.
Parents, siblings, spouses, age-ready children, best friends, close cousins—everyone plays a role.
The Family Lab experience is enlightening, easy, and even enjoyable—every single day (we promise).

The second thing we will do

Yes, there’s a book—but don’t worry. We only read a couple of minutes a day. You can borrow it from the library, buy it used, or pick up a copy from your favorite bookseller. Prefer to listen? There is an Audible version. It’s a surprisingly friendly read—even pleasurable (everyone says so). Want to track it down now? Look for It Takes a Family, 2nd Edition, from Hazelden Publishing.

The third thing we will do

Design Your Daily Family Lab Routine
Behavior design is a powerful driver of success. Choose when your 15 minutes (give or take) will happen each day. Will it be with your morning coffee, during lunch, right after school drop-off, or winding down after dinner? Pick something that triggers you daily, essentially saying: "Hey, it's now time for Family Lab!" By doing so, you will have no problem being a real champ.

Changing Everything

Family Recovery Lab

Family Recovery Lab is a way of navigating through addiction and recovery using the elements we know work. It’s about connectivity, not isolation. It goes beyond patient-centered to family-centered recovery. By working together, we create a different story and unshackle ourselves from the power of addiction.

What Families Have to Say

5.0
Rated 5 out of 5
The process allows me to share in my recovery with my family, and it has really helped me understand the family disease of drug and alcohol abuse. The biggest lie I told myself as an addict was that I was only hurting myself. This process has taught me that this is a lie and has been instrumental in the healing process between me and my family.
J. F.
recovering from alcohol and drug addiction
5.0
Rated 5 out of 5
This process is unparalleled by any type of therapy I have been part of since my journey began in 2016. … It taught me to stay in my own lane of recovery, but if I look over, I will see family traveling down the same road, and that is a priceless gift of recovery.
L. S.
wife of a beloved recovering husband
5.0
Rated 5 out of 5
This has been the perfect complement to my Twelve Step recovery journey, and it introduced and strengthened a connection with my family that most addicts I know don’t have. I am so grateful for the opportunity to build my recovery identity, and I look forward to carrying the SFR program and message to the addict that still suffers.
D.C
Beloved recovering son
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